How Not To Hate Your Husband After Kids - Jancee Dunn

'How did I become the "expert" at changing a nappy?" Jancee Dunn wondered.

Add to that a lack of sleep, an unfair division of household chores and her husband's new-found passion for very long bike rides, and Jancee suddenly found it hard to look at her well-meaning, clever, funny partner playing with his iPhone without feeling a white-hot rage.

Like many expectant parents, they'd spent weeks researching the safest car seat but little time thinking about the titanic impact the baby would have on their marriage and the way their marriage would affect their child.

Tired of having the same fights over and over, Dunn consults the latest relationship research, solicits the counsel of renowned sex and couples therapists, canvasses friends and parents, and even consults an FBI hostage negotiator on how to effectively contain an 'explosive situation'.

Could it be that the person who got her into this position is the ally she'd forgotten she had?